Welcome! I’m Ula – coach, mentor, single mum, and your personal guide to your new life.
I wasn’t always self-assured – trust me, I’ve been where so many of you are. After my separation, I decided to start dating again and quickly realised I lacked self belief, and needed some serious inner healing. Every date seemed like a disaster, whether it was me hiding parts of myself, trying too hard to impress, or just feeling overwhelmed by the whole process. All while managing the crazy demands of single parenting!
But through that journey – years of personal growth, working with coaches, and rebuilding my confidence – I discovered a set of tools and practices that transformed not only my dating life but my whole relationship with myself.
As a first-generation immigrant raising my daughter in the UK, I know what it feels like to carry the weight of responsibility on your own while also wanting more out of life. I now use everything I’ve learned, both professionally and personally, to help other single mums take control of their dating lives.
Something I would have loved and benefited from at the very start of my own journey… It’s a blend of practical coaching, inner healing, and nervous system regulation. We’ll work on goal setting, use EFT tapping to release insecurities, somatic practices to reconnect with your body, and tools for building your self-worth. We’ll dive deep into body image, values, boundaries, desires, and fears, all with a side of humour and realness.
I am a real person with a very real past. Worked through inner blocks that felt like concrete walls, keeping me from getting what I truly desired – to love and be loved again – whole, as a mum, “work in progress”, and as a (secretly yet deeply) passionate woman.
If this resonates – my approach is for you!
I’m not just talking the talk – I’ve lived this journey. I felt sadness and loneliness. I’ve experienced the struggles of single parenting, dating, navigating new relationships, and building a fulfilling career from the ground up. And I’m passionate about helping women like you raise above any blocks, whether it be shame, guilt and insecurities, that keep you from stepping into your full power. You deserve a life filled with love, pleasure, and connection, and I’m here to help you get there.
My tools address the unique challenges faced by single mums. And I have few really cool secret cards up my sleeve, which set me apart from ordinary life coaches 
So, are you ready to rediscover your strength, reignite your confidence, and enter the dating world as the empowered queen you are? Let’s work together!
Born and raised in Poland, I was the youngest of three girls, often seen as “clever but lazy” (though in reality I was simply disinterested in the mundane). Outwardly joyful, I wrestled internally with a rocky home life. In my early twenties, I moved to the UK, and two years later, I married a fun, good looking man who knew how to dance. Yes, love was there – but I had no idea who I was or what I truly valued in life. So my standards were basically ankle-high. But I had to find that out the hard way—many years later.
After a few “fun” years together, I became pregnant at 29. What felt like Out Of Nowhere, my marriage crumbled, and before long, I found myself alone with a toddler in a tiny London flat. It was terrifying yet exhilarating: a blank slate, a fresh beginning.
Vibe: Scary… But YEEEES!!!!
Whilst settling into life as a single mum, I was settling into my version of Womanhood. This was my Rite Of Passage.
My journey into coaching started with a steady office job, the “safe” path I thought I needed. But my soul quickly started nudging me toward a life of meaning. I studied psychology, worked with coaches, and eventually trained as one myself. After a pivotal retreat in Morocco, I discovered the path I was meant to walk and trained as a Female Sexuality Practitioner with Temple of the Feminine. Quitting my corporate job, I dove headfirst into building my own coaching practice, realizing along the way how much unresolved trauma I still had to work through.
I threw myself into working with Sacred Cacao, EFT Tapping, and meditation, gathering tools to support myself on this rocky road. I’ve come to understand that, as single mums, we’re often re-traumatized simply by shouldering so much responsibility alone. It’s why every new relationship, career shift, or major life change feels that much more challenging.
This journey wasn’t smooth. As I unearthed my true values and set boundaries, I had to let go of old relationships and habits. I learned the hard way that, for years, I’d been shrinking myself just to keep the peace. As I stepped into my role as a coach, I realized that my work on sexual empowerment was only a part of the whole picture. My real calling? Supporting single mums on their own journeys to reclaim their power, navigate new ventures, and rewrite the rules.
Equipped with life experience, passion, intuition, and expertise, I’ve crafted a unique offering for the women I understand best—badass single mums who know, deep down, that life could be so much more fulfilling and exciting!
Reclaim your emotional freedom and let go of past hurts. I create a nurturing space for you to process old wounds, build resilience, and move forward with an open heart, ready for love, connection, and self-discovery.
Rediscover the vibrant woman within, beyond the role of “mum.” Through our work, you’ll reconnect with your desires, passions, and personal identity, empowering you to show up fully in life and relationships.
Step confidently into your power with clear, healthy boundaries that honour your needs and emotions. I guide you through setting firm limits, so you never have to compromise your well-being again.
Together, we’ll create a life that feels balanced and fulfilling. Learn how to prioritize yourself, juggle responsibilities without burnout, and bring joy and peace back into your everyday moments.